where you're at

I have some expressions - my family calls them "sue-isms." One of my favorites is "Where you're at is where you're at until you're not there anymore." I love this saying because it reminds me just as I am growing and changing, others are too. Maybe some get stuck (sometimes forever) in the same place, however this saying still reminds me to give myself, and others - grace, because where you're at is where you're at...until you're not there anymore.